Relationship

I accidently read a blog of my ex-taiwanese colleage. she broke up with her 9 years relationship BF during her assignment in Malaysia. Reason of broken up - no feel. What a lamb reason. Very clear from her blog, she still not able to let go the relationship, so pity on her and at the sametime, i feel, relationship can be so fragile sometimes.

I still remember how sad was her during her time in Malaysia. I thought she can let go before she go back to Taiwan. Apparently, I'm wrong. I underestimate the important of him to her. Now i know why ppl always quote this "we need only 1 minutes to love a person, but need to spend a lifetime to forget that person". I'm "sam tong" at my friend, still couldn't let her him go. And I really look down to those guy say "no feel" to a gal when their are in such a long relationship. Why dont the guy put more effort to maintain it instead of breaking it? The same incidents happened to several of my friends, is this the standard reason normally given? Why must a gal to accept all his irresponsible excuse. Really can't understand and I choose not to understand....